I, many times, get excited and glad when i turn the mirror on myself. One thing that I know is unique about me is that I actually like being corrected (in the right way = out of love) and take it as a positive opportunity to change some of the nasty crap about me.
So, by nature, as a guy, I am prone to want to fix things. Which is okay. And pardon my getting to the point, I don't want to lose my train of thought (great album....oops there it goes!). I have always seen myself (erroneously and selfishly) as someone who can so plainly see the answer for most problems in people's lives. Gentlemen, let me be the first to tell you that your wife does not see eye to eye with you on this! Regardless if right or wrong, I've learned a principle today that I hope I can constantly remember and integrate into my character traits.
Funny that I should be hypocritical when I always say: "Our job is to plant the seeds and water the seeds; God grow the plants and brings the harvest." I always say that! Basically, do your part and God will do His. Focus on your small area of influence and God will get crazy!
How did I not realize to apply this principle I've so often stood by in my own home? Woah. I always try and nudge Liz along (what I would consider in the right direction) into not being ________ or changing the way she thinks about _______________. But why?
I just need to focus on my little area of influence and let God do the rest! I'm not her dad, so I'm not going to treat her like a child. Revolution! This is easier said than done. But, (honey) I am going to try.
Reminder: apply our knowledge and truth at home first.
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